Showing posts with label Real life. Show all posts
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Monday, May 11, 2015

What Are We Doing this Summer?


Every teacher LOVES May, right?!  When I was teaching in a traditional school setting, I remember the joy of finishing grading that last stack of essays and final exams, lots of goodbye hugs to students headed off into their own summer bliss, and the feeling of freedom heightened by the spring breeze and the sun on my face.  Even though the students I teach now don’t “leave” for summer, I still have this “May optimism.” A change in the routine is coming.  We can now make time for some new things in our homeschool days.  Before my non-homeschool readers check out of this, I’d like to remind the moms that all moms are “homeschool” moms in a sense because we are all teaching our children new things, introducing them to new ideas, sparking their creativity, and engaging them in conversations.  (And by the way, we and our children retain and learn much more through conversational learning than lectures any day!  So my point is that you are, of course, teaching your children!)
So here’s our summer homeschool plan:  (For new readers, my children are ages 1, turning 4, & turning 6 this summer.)
  1. Spanish: I have been thinking about this one all year.  With all the other school things we’ve been doing, we haven’t been able to squeeze it in during the regular school year, so “summer Spanish” here we come!  Macki helped me find a great deal on this curriculum Spanish for Kids: The Complete Collection that we think will be great for little ones.  (We also got the flash cards and the lesson plans.)I’m really looking forward to this because my Spanish has gotten lost in my brain files somewhere over the past twelve years.  When I spent the summer in Spain, I could carry on whole conversations with Spaniards (because of course, I wasn’t going to make it for a summer without being able to talk to people, so learning the language for conversation was a must  – haha!).  Now, it’s much like all my atrophied muscles that I once used in sports—if you don’t use it, you lose it!
  2. Unit studies based on the girls choosing: I typically try to do this when we are not in our “regular” curriculum year with our homeschool program with which we are members (and sometimes then we do this too).  For example, I ask them, “Girls, what do you want to learn about next week?”  Most recently, my oldest had just seen a bird nest full of newly hatched birds, so she responded, “Baby birds.”  We went to the library and found fun storybooks as well as science books on baby birds to study.  We will watch YouTube videos about baby birdies, and we will probably try to build a bird’s nest out of pine straw (that was her idea).  (She will quickly learn that birds are much better at building nests than we are!)  She loves to draw too, so I’m sure she will be drawing pictures of birds every chance she gets.  Of course, we will be looking for birds and trying to classify them when we’re outside.  Unit studies are my girls’ favorite thing to do, and it’s so inexpensive!  (Pinterest is a huge help with this too.  You can check out my Pinterest boards to see what we did for our farm unit and igloo unit.)
  3. One hour (at least) of playing outside per day: Some of this time involves directed things from this great resource Slow and Steady Get Me Ready.  This book is amazing for developing fine and gross motor skills for babies up to five-year-olds.
  4. One hour of reading per day:  Most of the reading will involve me reading to them.  We do a mix of levels—mostly picture books.  (At the library I just learned that there's a "My First Little House on the Prairie" series for young children.  You can check it out here:  A Little Prairie House.) My oldest is a beginning reader, so she will be reading aloud to me as well as to herself during her quiet hour (a/k/a baby nap time).
  5. Memory Work (this takes about five minutes): During our regular school year, we do Bible verses, poetry, and other things from our homeschool program such as Presidents, geography, books of the Bible, etc., so now we are back to focusing on our catechism and learning hymns (particularly because we go to a contemporary church where they don’t hear them often enough to know them by heart).  An added bonus of the hymns is learning new vocabulary and fun theological discussions.  (My children love this cd The Kids Hymnal: 80 Songs & Hymns.)
  6. Phonics and math games: Both curricula that we used this year came with MANY games, so we will be playing these all over again for review and added help!
  7. Letter writing: My girls love to send mail to people, and my oldest needs to work on her handwriting, so letter writing is my sly, coercive plan for slipping in handwriting practice!

I recognize that I’m a little ambitious, and I’m not planning to do all seven items every single day.  (In fact, the playing outside and the reading are the only daily ones. I alternate every other day prioritizing outside play or academics, but I try to do both.) Of course, there are many summer days that will involve other things when we won’t do any of these, but hey, it’s important to have a goal, right?!  I also have a list of things around here that need a good deep cleaning, those things all during the school year about which we say, “I’ll get to that this summer!”

Friday, April 3, 2015

Ideas for Celebrating Easter (For Children but Really for Anyone!)

Ideas for Celebrating Easter
I tell my children, “Easter is just as important as Christmas.”  And while I mean that, it’s hard to make quite the fanfare about Easter that we do about Christmas when the culture around us isn’t throwing Easter parties, listening to Easter music, taking a two week Easter break from school, or having Easter parades.  But if we have anything to throw a party about, it’s this—the resurrected Christ defeated my sin and my death, out of the riches of his mercy and grace gave me the ultimate gift, took on himself the punishment that was mine, made a way for me to live forever with God, gave my life purpose, and enabled the indwelling of the Holy Spirit so that His very presence and power continue on in the world through you and me!  Easter should be the party to end all parties—meaning you won’t find a better reason to throw a party than Easter (this side of heaven at least).
As I preach this to myself, I’m thinking that what I’m about to share with you is rather anti-climactic in light of the glory of the resurrection of Christ, but I’ll share nonetheless.
Here are a few ways I try to make Easter memorable for my children.   Children LOVE traditions and remember them even when you forget them (one of the many things I love about my tribe).  (FYI – these are not my original ideas, and if I knew whom to credit, I would.)
  1. Resurrection Rolls – On Easter morning get the children to help roll marshmallows into canned crescent rolls (1 marshmallow to 1 roll) and talk with them about Jesus being wrapped in burial clothes and placed in a borrowed tomb (See Mark 15:42-47). Then when you take them out of the oven, the marshmallow is “gone”!  Talk with them about the significance of the empty tomb!  (I’ve been doing this for two years, and this year, my five-year-old said, “Mama don’t forget to buy those rolls that we put Jesus in…you know the ones!”)
  2. Plant an Easter garden. We did this last year and our garden is still alive (which is quite MIRACULOUS considering that I killed an asparagus fern that had previously survived the Pascagoula floodwaters of Hurricane Katrina).  Use a pot turned sideways with moss on top (or a big rock with a hole drilled in it) as the tomb, and use play-dough to “seal” the tomb.  Use small succulent plants to make the garden.  I got this idea from my friend Ann.  Check it out here.  (Ok, she doesn’t know we’re friends, but we are.  You’ll notice in my sidebar of recommended books that hers is one of my favs.)  My children had fun planting and watering the garden.  (P.S.  Ann's looks way better than mine! ha!)
    Easter garden
  3. The night before Easter make Resurrection cookies. (See recipe below.)
  4. Sing Easter hymns and songs. We go to a contemporary church, so my children don’t hear the hymns as often as I did growing up, so I make it a point to sing and play them at home and on CD in the car.  I really like this one:  Kids Hymnal.  When “And Can it Be” comes on, my girls say, “Mama, this is your song.”   (See lyrics below.)  My children are hearing some great theology through the hymns, and one day I trust it will deepen their walk with Christ.
  5. Make or buy resurrection eggs and read the corresponding Scripture with your children.  You can check out an example:  Easter Egg Set - 12 Resurrection Eggs With Religious Figurines Inside - Tells Full Story of Easter.
    (I made my own.  We usually do this on Saturday when we are waiting on the dyed Easter eggs to dry.)
    resurrection eggs(This pic was taken last year.)
  6. The obvious and easy one: Take your children to all the services that build up to Easter—Ash Wednesday, Palm Sunday, any Holy Week services your church has, and of course Easter Sunday—and sunrise services are just THE BEST.  Last Sunday my five-year-old asked me why our church didn’t have the palm branches (as we usually do) this year for Palm Sunday.  I didn’t even tell her it was Palm Sunday!  My point here is simply that tangible experiences help children (and adults) remember.  This Thursday I asked my girls what was significant about this day before Jesus died.   She said, “They [Jesus and his disciples] ate the Passover food together, and Jesus took the bread and said ‘this is my body’ . . .”  I don’t really drill this into her, but through a combination of teaching (church/homeschool program teachers/home) and experiences, she remembers.   I share all this not to brag on her, but to say that you never know when the seemingly small things make a big impression on their understanding.
  7. Have an Easter party.  (I haven't done this yet . . . but one day!)Please leave a comment to share your Easter ideas!



The Easter Story Cookies
You will need:
1 cup whole pecans
1tsp. vinegar
3 egg whites
pinch of salt
1 cup sugar
Ziploc bag
wooden spoon
tape
a Bible
Preheat oven to 300 degrees.  Place pecans in Ziploc bag and let children beat them with wooden spoon to break into small pieces.  Read John 19:1-3.   After Jesus was arrested, He was beaten by the Roman soldiers.
Let children smell the vinegar.  Put 1 tsp. vinegar into mixing bowl.  Explain that when Jesus was thirsty on the cross, He was given vinegar to drink.  Read John 19:28-30.
Add egg whites to vinegar.  Eggs represent life.  Explain that Jesus gave His life to give us life.  Read John 10:10-11.
Sprinkle a little salt into each child’s hand.  Let them taste it.  Put a pinch of salt into mixing bowl.  Explain that this represents the salty tears shed by Jesus’ followers, and the bitterness of our own sin.  Read Luke 23:27.
So far, the ingredients are not very appetizing.
Add 1 cup of sugar.  Explain that the sweetest part of the story is that Jesus died because he loves us.  He wants us to know and belong to Him.  Read Psalm 34:8 and John 3:16.
Beat with a mixer on high speed for 12 to 15 minutes until stiff peaks are formed.  Explain that the color white represents the purity of those whose sins have been cleansed by Jesus.  Read Isaiah 1:18 and John 3:1-3.
Fold in broken nuts.  Drop by teaspoons on to waxed paper cookie sheet.  Explain that each mound represents the rocky tomb where Jesus’ body was laid.  Read Matthew 27:57-60.  Put cookie sheet in the oven, close the door, and turn the oven OFF.  Give each child a piece of tape and seal the oven door.  Explain that Jesus’ tomb was sealed.  Read Matthew 27:65-66.
Now go to bed!
Explain that they may feel sad to leave the cookies in the oven overnight.  Jesus’ followers were in despair when the tomb was sealed.  Read John 16:20 and 22.
On Easter morning open the oven and give everyone a cookie.  Notice the cracked surface and take a bite.  The cookies are hollow!  On the first Easter, Jesus followers were amazed to find the tomb open and empty.  Read Matthew 28:1-9.
* Recipe given to me by my friend Vicky Waggoner (not sure who wrote it, but likely a wonderful Sunday School teacher or mom!)


“And Can It Be”
by Charles Wesley
And can it be that I should gain
An interest in the Savior’s blood?
Died He for me, who caused His pain?
For me, who Him to death pursued?
Amazing love! how can it be
That Thou, my God, shouldst die for me?
Amazing love! how can it be
That Thou, my God, shouldst die for me?
’Tis mystery all! The Immortal dies!
Who can explore His strange design?
In vain the firstborn seraph tries
To sound the depths of love Divine!
’Tis mercy all! let earth adore,
Let angel minds inquire no more.
’Tis mercy all! let earth adore,
Let angel minds inquire no more.
He left His Father’s throne above,
So free, so infinite His grace;
Emptied Himself of all but love,
And bled for Adam’s helpless race:
’Tis mercy all, immense and free;
For, O my God, it found out me.
’Tis mercy all, immense and free;
For, O my God, it found out me.
Long my imprisoned spirit lay
Fast bound in sin and nature’s night;
Thine eye diffused a quickening ray,
I woke, the dungeon flamed with light;
My chains fell off, my heart was free,
I rose, went forth, and followed Thee.
My chains fell off, my heart was free,
I rose, went forth, and followed Thee.
No condemnation now I dread;
Jesus, and all in Him, is mine!
Alive in Him, my living Head,
And clothed in righteousness Divine,
Bold I approach the eternal throne,
And claim the crown, through Christ my own.
Bold I approach the eternal throne,
And claim the crown, through Christ my own.

Friday, March 6, 2015

An Idea for Your Women's Ministry


We had a “prayer brunch” for the women at our church on Saturday. “Prayer brunch” might lead one to think, “Women in their pretty dresses, bringing in warm breakfast casseroles, a lot of talking and maybe a little bit of prayer.”  Other than the “warm breakfast casseroles” part, the other couldn’t be farther from the truth.  We gathered, we ate, I read Acts 2:42, and I reminded them of why we were there:
“All the believers devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching, and to fellowship, and to sharing in meals (including the Lord’s Supper) and to prayer…” (Acts 2:42 NLT).
(See!  The eating part is Biblical after all.)  Then, our leader for the brunch had each woman write on an index card how we could be praying for her (and leave it anonymous).  We threw the little cards in the same basket, and one by one a woman would draw the card out, read it, and then pray aloud right then and there for that woman whose card she drew.
I’m glad my friend was leading instead of me because I always do this thing in which I try to make everyone feel comfortable and say, “You don’t have to pray out loud if you don’t want to…”  But she didn’t say that.  She didn’t force anyone to pray out loud, but she also didn’t let everyone off the hook either.  Of course, the Lord’s hand was in it—emboldening weary or anxious women.  One by one almost every woman in the room prayed out loud—powerful prayers from seemingly timid souls.   Those small, perfectly lined index cards contained big, messy prayers from women believing in an uncontainable God.  There were spiritually bleeding hearts poured out on those cards—hearts begging for humility, for patience, for wisdom, for boldness in their witness, for freedom from addiction, for hearts that love their families and other people more than they love themselves.
Blessed are the poor in spirit,
    for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. . . .
Blessed are the pure in heart,

    for they will see God.–Matthew 5:3, 8 NIV
The Spirit of God fell and filled that little Sunday school room, and for a little Saturday morning get-together we enjoyed a great unity that can only be found in Christ.  I tried to wrap it up at 12:00 p.m.  I had promised the ladies we would finish at 12:00, but they didn’t want to quit, so for another hour or so we prayed – this time not for ourselves but for our nation – prayers of repentance, for our persecuted brothers and sisters in places all over the world, and for the dark culture that we live in – a culture that masquerades as fun and filling but leaves people abandoned and empty.
The whole thing was simply beautiful.  Young women, older women, single women, married women, poor women, rich women, feisty women, quiet women—I think the only common denominators for all of us were “women” and “Christian.” It was like being wrapped up in the most beautiful patchwork quilt you’ve ever seen—radiant hearts of unique individuals sewn together to make something beautiful, purposeful, and lasting.
“For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.”
(Jesus, Matthew 18:20 NIV)
To God be the glory!

Sunday, February 22, 2015

Will you take the 40 bags in 40 days challenge with me?

As my Itty Bitty (age 3) is sitting here on my bed telling me, right this very moment,  I'm a mess!  I love to de-clutter, organize, and label things.  I'm pretty intentional about not buying a bunch of junk.  I try to be frugal.  Nevertheless, somehow, mysteriously I'm still losing the war against stuff.  My Itty Bitty is pretending to "organize" all the loose papers and index cards in my Bible.  She has pulled out every one of them, and in her grown-up, serious voice she's saying things like, "Mama, this is unacceptable.  This is too much mess!  I'm going to organize these papers for you, and we've got to get rid of this junk!"  (Where does she learn these exaggerated statements?!)  So...during Lent this year, I'm de-junking (yet again), but this time it's more fun because I'm doing it with my friend Macki (who challenged me) and with a whole world of blog readers.  You can read about it here:

Post a comment and let me know if you're in with me - and with the rest of the @WHBSBlog readers. P.S.  I know, I know..."Decrapifying" isn't exactly a nice word, but it's Ann Marie's word, not mine :).

Saturday, February 14, 2015

12 Tips for Having a Great Sunday


The small town in which I grew up shut down on Sundays, and I think we were better off for it.  One of our two grocery stores didn’t open at all, and the other was open only from 12:00 to 6:00 p.m.  The downtown streets were empty.  All of life slowed way down.  Sundays were for worship, eating, fishing, and naps.  Sounds awesome, doesn’t it?!
When I moved here, I was sad to see all these people rushing here and there on Sundays as if it were any other day.  There was no holy space—at least not the kind that was markedly noticeable by the whole community—not even good peer pressure that made people SLOW. DOWN. and REST.  When everyone else is racing around, it’s easy to get caught up and race around that silly gerbil wheel yourself.  That little wheel is going nowhere, but that little life is getting worn slap out.
I’m not a full-blown "legalist," by the way.  I have been known occasionally to go to a restaurant on Sundays or to the grocery store if the “ox is in the ditch” as the Biblical metaphor goes.  But I really think a small dose of legalism about it would do me some good.  (And yes, I’m aware that the real Hebrew Shabbat is from sundown Friday to sundown Saturday.)
As a refresher for us, here’s what God told Moses and the Hebrew people:  “Remember to observe the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. You have six days each week for your ordinary work, 10 but the seventh day is a Sabbath day of rest dedicated to the Lord your God. On that day no one in your household may do any work. This includes you, your sons and daughters, your male and female servants, your livestock, and any foreigners living among you” (Exodus 20:8-10 NLT).
Yeah, this is on that BIG TEN LIST – right there alongside those others we hold more dearly—honor your father and mother, don’t lie, steal, murder, commit adultery.  Somehow we hold exception to just this one—at best it’s inconvenient and weird, and at most it’s costly.
My pastor and dear friend always likes to remind me of what Jesus said, “The Sabbath was made to meet the needs of people, and not people to meet the requirements of the Sabbath” (Mark 2:27 NLT).
But my question is this, “What if we DO let Sabbath meet our needs?  What if we let God meet our needs the way God designed our needs to be met?”  The One who is the Author of us is the Author of rest.  When we wrestle on without ever resting, I dare say we wrestle ourselves right to an empty defeat that God never intended for us.
So from one busy gerbil to another, here’s how to have a great Sunday:
  1. Plan ahead on Saturday (or Friday if your Sabbath is on Saturday). Not my original idea—it’s God’s.   “This is what the Lord commanded: Tomorrow will be a day of complete rest, a holy Sabbath day set apart for the Lord. So bake or boil as much as you want today, and set aside what is left for tomorrow” (Exodus 16:23).
  2. Plan your grocery time for anytime other than Sunday.
  3. When you meal plan, consider a crockpot meal or leftovers for Sundays. If you really want to get into it, use paper plates so you don’t have to wash so many dishes!!
  4. Lay out clothes for Sunday (iron, mend) on Saturdays. Get the diaper bag (or other church paraphernalia) by the back door on Saturday nights.  If you’re ready the night before, you’re less likely to get flustered and yell at the kids before church or to shirk going altogether!
  5. Go ahead and think about Monday on Saturday. Do whatever’s got to be done for Monday then—homework, meal plan, lesson plans.
  6. Set your alarm (ouch, I know) so that when Sunday arrives, you get up in time to pray before getting ready for worship. It always makes for a more enriching worship time.
  7. Go to worship! Obviously.
  8. If the family needs a nap that afternoon, make everyone take one! (or at least have a quiet time in their rooms)
  9. If you don’t want to nap, do something Re-Creation-al. True recreation isn’t something that just numbs you (e.g. lame tv shows) but something that really re-creates the you that God made you to be (drawing, painting, writing, fishing, walking, reading, etc.).
  10. OR do something as a family that connects you with one another in a fun way (play games, play outside). Sundays should be a time toward which every one of every age looks forward.  To be a holy day means it’s a set-apart day—a good kind of different from the other six days.
  11. When you’re tempted to do laundry (or ______ fill in the blank with daily, ordinary work), write down all the tasks you’re dying to do, and ask yourself if it’s really worth it or can it wait until tomorrow night (or lunch break if you get one of those or early morning or maybe even next Saturday).
  12. Stay out of stores and away from internet shopping on Sundays—they just make us want stuff that we probably don’t need, spend money we probably don’t have, and most of all rob us of holy time and meaningful experiences with the people we love.
A new habit takes practice.  Just try it.  Practice a new holy habit this week!
If you create a new Sunday habit, share it in the comments section.